Do you know what you want in life? Do you know how to get what you want?
These are two of the most basic questions that so many people cannot answer. Are you one of them?
Why is it that so many people don’t know what they want? Is it because they have a low IQ? Is it because they are less ambitious than others? Is it because they had no one around them who knew what they wanted and went after it; no role model?
It might be true that their reason is one or more of the above. But does that mean they cannot now become clear on what they want and go after it?
I’m not one to believe that.
AGE ISN’T A FACTOR
It is normal for people, in general, to not know what they want in life during the onset of adulthood. It’s the rare occasion that you come across someone who knows exactly what they want out of life at such an early age. It does happen but it’s rare.
But as you may know, there are some people who are no longer a young adult who are in their 40s and 50s yet still don’t know that they want in life. They are floating through life with no idea of what they want.
That’s so sad. I hope you’re not one of them.
It took me years to figure out what I truly wanted in life. I was confused for quite some time. I had to work through what others wanted for me, what I envied in others, and what I thought God wanted for me. As you can see I was one confused fella.
I had to go through a series of self-reflection and with the help of God, coaches and close friends who were themselves on a similar journey, I was able to solidify what I wanted.
IT’S A PROCESS
Knowing what you want is a process. You have to start somewhere. Don’t wait until you “figure” it out. You won’t at the beginning. You will have some doubts along the way. You will have questions.
The point is to get started with what feels good to you. Again, there might be some doubts. This is quite normal. It should feel this way.
Once you are in flow with what you want, you will become unstoppable.
Having gone through my own time of figuring out what I wanted for my life, I came to the realization that it didn’t have to take me as long as it did.
SPEED UP THE PROCESS
I could have gotten to know what I wanted quicker if I had someone in my corner earlier who could help me figure it out.
You too will be able to get to “what you want” much quicker than I did if you get the right person or the right framework to help you with such.
I’ve created the Rapid Change SMOOTH Framework to help people like you do so. It’s a program designed to help you cut through the confusion, gain clarity and take your first next step with confidence.
If you want to find out more, connect with me directly and let’s see if my program would work for you.
